Trevor

December 2009

I am new to the area and needed a way to get to know people.  I was referred by Jennifer Craig, gambling counselor, Ground Works Counseling Service.  I needed to make new connections in the community.

The biggest change I have felt is that I have learned how to socialize with a lot of different people.  I don’t feel as reserved.  It was a fresh start for me.  I am involved in more healthy social activities like swimming, hanging out with more people for coffee and breakfast.  I am involved in planning community activities at You’ve Gotta Have Friends. 

Internally, what has shifted most is my belief that I can start to trust some people.  I have experienced acceptance, being accepted and being more accepting of others.  My experience started at Y.G.H.F.  and is branching out with the connections I’ve made and the activities and relationships I’ve formed.

The best thing about Y.G.H.F. is that it gives people an opportunity to meet.  I see a lot of people lifted up by coming to Y.G.H.F.  I have been lifted up and am definitely happier, much of which is a result of my involvement with Y.G.H.F. 

For this to be a best experience I would like more community events and activities that involve more people.  I am inspired to try to find ways to organize more things in the community and to help others.  I listen to others and offer positive feedback and support.  Knowing that I’ve done something good for someone else, I feel more positive and useful.