Sandra

January 2010 

I came into You’ve Gotta Have Friends because I knew Pat and Janice.  I knew I could contribute with my creative crafts. 
When I saw the logo and name I wondered if it was for newcomers but when I found out what You’ve Gotta Have Friends was thought it was a neat concept “the more friends, the better!”.   I am a senior and enjoy going to the Seniors Centre but what I like about YGHF is that I don’t get stuck or categorized by my own age group.  I enjoy being in an environment where things are still happening.  This shows you the diversity in our community.

You’ve Gotta Have Friends has given me an appreciation of wider community and the difficulties some people have.  I enjoy popping with my latest creative fun projects and sharing my home baking with the people here.

I have become aware of people’s issues and problems.  I’ve become more empathetic and understanding, more accepting of people as they are.  People are not judgmental here.  I made a connection with Marianne and she’s come to my home.  The times I’ve spent with her made me realize and appreciate her courage to make her life work for her.

One of the best things about You’ve Gotta Have Friends is that everyone is open to listen or chit chatting.  There are no restrictions.  Sometimes there are interesting events.  I enjoy the dances.  I dress up for the themed dances.  I like that you can just be as you are, no expectations or judgment, just go and enjoy yourself and have a good time.

One of the things I enjoy most is the workshops, particularly the women’s group.  It was a confidential, sharing and supporting group.  I would enjoy more discussion groups, more meaningful and focused conversations.  There aren’t too many opportunities to do this in the community.

You’ve Gotta Have Friends is a comfort zone for me.  I feel appreciated for the little treats and goodies I bring in to share.